Joseph "Iron" Willis

Meet Your Coach – A Brother Who’s Been There

Hey brother—if you’re reading this, chances are you’re carrying something heavy. Maybe it’s the weight of a strained marriage, the grip of addiction, the ache of depression or anxiety, or the shame of secret struggles like sexual addiction or unresolved trauma. Maybe you’re trying to hold it all together as a dad while silently falling apart yourself. I’ve walked through that fire—and I want you to know: there is hope on the other side.

I’m not coming at this from a pedestal—I’m coming from the trenches. I’ve battled the same giants. I’ve felt the sting of a cold marriage, the guilt of losing my temper with my kids, and the crushing lie that I wasn’t enough. I’ve questioned whether freedom, joy, or peace were even possible. But through God’s grace, wise counsel, and the brotherhood of Men’s Alliance, I’ve found healing, purpose, and the strength to help other men fight their own battles.

Now, I serve as a mental health coach for men like you—men who are done pretending, who are ready to do the work, and who want to become the husbands, fathers, and warriors they were born to be.

Areas of Focus:

• Addiction & Sexual Addiction – If you’re stuck in a cycle that feels impossible to break, you’re not alone—and you’re not beyond help.
• Anxiety & Depression – The darkness lies. You’re not weak. You’re not broken. Let’s walk through it together.
• Trauma – You don’t have to keep carrying what happened to you. You can heal and become whole.
• Marriage & Relationships – Whether you’re fighting to save your marriage, struggling with disconnection, or trying to be a better man for the people you love—there’s a path forward.
• Parenting – I’m a dad of four kids, all under 8, so I get it. The noise. The chaos. The responsibility. The pressure to be everything for everyone. You’re not failing—you’re just fighting a battle no one sees. Let’s sharpen your tools and strengthen your heart for the mission.

This isn’t therapy. It’s brotherhood. It’s battle-tested tools and heart-level transformation. Together, we’ll dig deep, pray hard, and push through. You don’t have to do this alone—not anymore.

If you’re ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man God made you to be, let’s get to work.