You can’t be angry at someone for overrunning a line that doesn’t exist. Well-defined boundaries in any relationship are necessary. They protect us from the whims of others and prevent resentment and anger down the road. Improve your relationships by reading Boundaries by Dr.'s Cloud and Townsend. And for more great book recommendations, check out the MA Bookshelf --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
Johanna Stamps, a licensed grief counselor, talks about how we have to acknowledge grief and mourn in order to continue to move towards God’s vision for our life. Many items can be lost such as a job, pets, friendships, and marriages. As men, we need to take time and space to let our brain catch up to the event that has happened. Johanna shares her 7 steps included below and talks about the power of writing a closure letter on the grief you are going through. How to connect with Johanna:johannastamps.com804 944 [email protected] Men’s Alliance | How Great Men Grieve “If you loved it, and lost it, then grieve it” Grief is like an epic hike through a desolate land. 7 Steps of the Journey: 1. TRAILHEAD: AT THE BEGINNING OF THE JOURNEY a. Set the intention to heal, to integrate b. Look for a sign you are grieving: Cognitive, Affective, Physical, Spiritual c. You ONLY work where grief is coming up, that’s the beginning d. Feel the pain (No pain, No gain)... It brings healing 2. LOOK AT THE MAP (Pssst... it’s a magical map) a. The magical map only appears as you walk forward in your grief b. It’s completely unique to you (circumstance, personality, etc.) c. Dispel misconceptions (don’t look for stages) 3. BEGIN WALKING a. Small doses as it comes up b. One thing at a time c. We cannot grieve all at one time. We wouldn’t be able to take it! d. Be creative... example: recognizing important dates (or your body will tell you) 4. GATHER WITH OTHERS - DON’T GRIEVE IN ISOLATION a. Grieving is internal - Mourning is your external or public experience of grief b. ESSENTIAL - speak about the experience of the loss, memories, etc. c. Moves from the head to the heart (READ THIS AGAIN!!!) d. Look for the 1⁄3 who are good with grief (most likely someone who has dealt with their own grief) 5. STOP FOR REST a. Sustenance for your epic journey b. Maybe learn to rest for the first time 6. EXERCISE JOY AND PAIN MUSCLE a. Like any normal ruck or hike there is joy with the pain b. Practice this often when you are grieving 7. GET TO THE LOOKOUT a. Reflect on how far you have come (when you look at the loss with less pain) b. See parts of yourself that are becoming whole again - integrating the loss c. This is OFTEN understanding who you are (e.g. identity) Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
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What is "Progressive Christianity"? Why are celebrity singers and mega-church pastors "deconverting"? And what does the New Testament have to say about homosexuality? Check out this episode for answers to these questions and more. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
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In this episode, we sit down with Ducky, leader of Judah Tribe in central Arkansas, to hear his powerful story of military service, identity, struggle, faith, and brotherhood.Ducky shares what life looked like before Christ, how the Army shaped him, the dangers of building your life around the wrong identity, and how God used Christian men, Scripture, and Men’s Alliance to reshape his life. He also opens up about marriage, fatherhood, launching a tribe, starting his podcast Wisdom for Warriors, and the many obstacles that nearly kept him from attending Carry the Fire.This episode is for any man who feels stuck between old identities and the man God is calling him to become.In this episode: • Growing up without a strong father figure • Joining the Army and serving with the 101st Airborne • The veteran identity trap • How Christian men changed his trajectory • Starting Judah Tribe in Arkansas • The real story behind his Carry the Fire journey • Launching the Wisdom for Warriors podcast • What it means to find your identity in ChristIf you’re a veteran, first responder, husband, father, or man trying to walk with Jesus in a world that keeps pulling you backward, this one will hit home.Wisdom for Warriors Podcast - @Wisdomforwarriors Sign up for the Leadership Summit - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/training/leadershipFollow Men's AllianceInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribeTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribeWebsite - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/Explore Battlefield Coaching today and find yourself a Coach with experience overcoming a battle you are currently facing - https://battlefieldcoaching.comOrder the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV
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Brotherhood is much different than a casual buddy that you watch a football game with. Who are your real brothers? A brother is there for you in the tough times, and shares common purpose. You can rely on him and turn to him when you need him most. This makes the good times even better! We all need true brothers to share life with. As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another. King Solomon was on to something there!! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
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This week Mark Earley joins the podcast talking about foundations and grounding in our society, and why he is running for office. Mark discusses how we have to be grounded, and have a strong foundation as a community including: faith, family, hard work, and core values that are objective and standard. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
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