How to Lead Your Teen Without Pushing Them Away with Dads Who Lead

Most dads can get by managing how to lead when kids are little… but teenagers are a different battlefield. In this episode, Tom Pfanner from Dads Who Lead breaks down how fathers can rebuild connection with teens, lead through the eye-roll stage, and create a real rite of passage that prepares young men for responsibility.Tom shares his personal story, how he rewrote his leadership when his son pulled away, and why the shift is simple but hard: stop parenting, start leading.Plus: how these principles apply to dads raising daughters, and why challenges (not constant celebration) build confidence in a young man’s soul.Connect with Tom & Dads Who Lead - https://dadswholead.com/homeFollow Men's AllianceInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribeTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribeWebsite - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/Explore Battlefield Coaching today and find yourself a Coach with experience overcoming a battle you are currently facing - https://battlefieldcoaching.comOrder the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV

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Mission Briefing 45: 2 Things You Need, 1 Thing You Don't

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Men’s Alliance

You signed up for a cool manly weekend doing burpees and getting yelled at by an ex-Seal? Cool! Love that for you. Will that help you be a spiritual leader and godly example for your family? Not necessarily. There is a short list of things that men need to understand their purpose in this world while getting the support they need from a tribe of God-fearing brothers so they can lead their families in the right direction, and in this Mission Briefing, Goose shares exactly what those things are. Here are the main points: - Every Christian man needs a tribe for support. - Training is essential, not just reading. - Virtual communities are not sufficient. - Practical training is crucial for spiritual leadership. - Weekend experiences do not equate to real growth. - You need to practice to share your faith effectively. - Isolation can lead to crises without support. - Building a tribe should happen before storms hit. - Men's Alliance focuses on real-life applications of faith. Follow Men's Alliance Instagram - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/⁠ Facebook - ⁠https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribe⁠ Tiktok - ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribe⁠ Website - ⁠https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/ ⁠ Order the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - ⁠https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Nov 11
06 min
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Ep 73: Free Bird

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Men’s Alliance

My personal story of having my first kid leave the nest and choose to enlist in the military rather than go to college.  Here's what it taught me, and why I'm glad I let him choose his own adventure. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Feb 18
11 min
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Ep 118: How & Why We Worship

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Men’s Alliance

With Men's Alliance being comprised of over nine different denominations, we have a vast array of worship styles.  This week, listen to several tribesmen share how they worship and their worship progression over the years.   While we may worship differently according to our own gifts and expressions, we all agree on the important aspect of  worshiping God. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Feb 02
1 hr 02 min
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Load Your Mag: Apologetics for Men Who Refuse to Fold ft. Pastor Ethan Jago

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Men’s Alliance

Men—too many of us step into conversations about God with empty mags. Then we retreat.Today we fix that.Pastor Ethan Jago (Air Force SERE background, host of Battlefield Theologian) joins Men’s Alliance to train practical apologetics you can run tonight at the kitchen table. No ivory-tower debates—bullets you can load: the deity of Christ, the reliability of the New Testament, how to flip questions back, and Ethan’s E-A-T framework (Engage, Ask, Transition) to get to the Gospel fast.Topics: • Why most men outsource spiritual leadership—and how to take it back • “One ranger, one riot”: courage under cultural fire • Turning social-media hot takes into teachable moments • Hermeneutics made simple: read in context, chase author intent • Evidence vs. ownership: the Bible as your standard, not your feelingsStop sitting on your knees waiting your turn. Stand up. Load your mag. Lead your family.Subscribe for more men’s leadership, discipline, and faith training.Resources mentioned: R.C. Sproul’s Classical Apologetics; Grasping God’s Word (hermeneutics).Follow Men's AllianceInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribeTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribeWebsite - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/Explore Battlefield Coaching today and find yourself a Coach with experience overcoming a battle you are currently facing - https://battlefieldcoaching.comOrder the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV

Sep 18
1 hr 04 min
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EP 71: Message of Love w/Jeff VanAtta

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Men’s Alliance

With Valentines right around the corner, how are you going to create an Epic experience for those you love, versus the normal chocolate and flowers? How can you show love and appreciation for your family, helping to strengthen family bonds? In Paul's letters they are full of Messages of Love.  How do you send Messages of Love to your relatives or friends? Do you send love to both Christians and non Christians? Challenge: How are you going to create Epic Messages for those you Love this year? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Feb 04
06 min
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