Ep 92: Brotherhood w/ Connor Dillingham

Brotherhood is much different than a casual buddy that you watch a  football game with.  Who are your real brothers? A brother is there for you in the tough times, and shares common purpose. You  can rely on him and turn to him when you need him most.  This makes the  good times even better! We  all need true brothers to share life with.  As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another. King Solomon was on to something there!! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Jul 01
07 min
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Ep 175: How Great Men Grieve

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Men’s Alliance

Johanna Stamps, a licensed grief counselor, talks about how we have to acknowledge grief and mourn in order to continue to move towards God’s vision for our life.  Many items can be lost such as a job, pets, friendships, and marriages.  As men, we need to take time and space to let our brain catch up to the event that has happened. Johanna shares her 7 steps included below and talks about the power of writing a closure letter on the grief you are going through. How to connect with Johanna:johannastamps.com804 944 [email protected] Men’s Alliance | How Great Men Grieve “If you loved it, and lost it, then grieve it” Grief is like an epic hike through a desolate land. 7 Steps of the Journey: 1. TRAILHEAD: AT THE BEGINNING OF THE JOURNEY a. Set the intention to heal, to integrate b. Look for a sign you are grieving: Cognitive, Affective, Physical, Spiritual c. You ONLY work where grief is coming up, that’s the beginning d. Feel the pain (No pain, No gain)... It brings healing 2. LOOK AT THE MAP (Pssst... it’s a magical map) a. The magical map only appears as you walk forward in your grief b. It’s completely unique to you (circumstance, personality, etc.) c. Dispel misconceptions (don’t look for stages) 3. BEGIN WALKING a. Small doses as it comes up b. One thing at a time c. We cannot grieve all at one time. We wouldn’t be able to take it! d. Be creative... example: recognizing important dates (or your body will tell you) 4. GATHER WITH OTHERS - DON’T GRIEVE IN ISOLATION a. Grieving is internal - Mourning is your external or public experience of grief b. ESSENTIAL - speak about the experience of the loss, memories, etc. c. Moves from the head to the heart (READ THIS AGAIN!!!) d. Look for the 1⁄3 who are good with grief (most likely someone who has dealt with their own grief) 5. STOP FOR REST a. Sustenance for your epic journey b. Maybe learn to rest for the first time 6. EXERCISE JOY AND PAIN MUSCLE a. Like any normal ruck or hike there is joy with the pain b. Practice this often when you are grieving 7. GET TO THE LOOKOUT a. Reflect on how far you have come (when you look at the loss with less pain) b. See parts of yourself that are becoming whole again - integrating the loss c. This is OFTEN understanding who you are (e.g. identity) Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

May 02
1 hr 21 min
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God Used This PE Teacher to Change Hundreds of Lives in Prison

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Men’s Alliance

“God doesn’t want to take the savage out of you — He wants to direct it.”In this episode, Goose sits down with Joel Hughes, founder of Tri-Hope, to unpack what it really means to be a savage for God.They dive deep into: • How God wired men to be warriors, not choir boys • Why your aggression isn’t sinful — it’s sacred when directed • How one challenge from a kid in juvenile detention led Joel to complete an Ironman • The birth of Tri-Hope — helping men and women rebuild their lives after incarceration • The power of obedience, challenge, and calling • How Men’s Alliance and Tri-Hope are changing lives in jails across VirginiaConnect with Tri-Hope: https://tri-hope.org/This episode will remind you:You’re not broken. You’re built for battle.You just need to fight for the right Kingdom.Follow Men's AllianceInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribeTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribeWebsite - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/Explore Battlefield Coaching today and find yourself a Coach with experience overcoming a battle you are currently facing - https://battlefieldcoaching.comOrder the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV

Nov 06
1 hr 21 min
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Ep 186: Men and Divorce

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Men’s Alliance

Divorce is one of the hardest things a man can go through, and while no Christian man wants a divorce, it can happen to us against our will. Listen as three tribesmen share their journey of going through divorce and learning to heal. Books Mentioned: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality- Peter Scazzero The Me I Want to Be - John Ortberg Letting Go - David Hawkins Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Jul 18
1 hr 33 min
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Ep 121: Men's Ministry in America

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Men’s Alliance

Men's ministry needs to create bonds, if your version of a men's ministry is only a monthly breakfast, that just doesn't cut it. Churches need to step up their game when it comes to connecting with men, and that is where Men's Alliance makes a huge impact. Books Mentioned: Take it Back by Tim Clinton  The Feminization of American Culture by Anne Douglas  Endurance: Shackelton's Incredible Voyage by Alfred Lansing  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Feb 23
59 min
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Mission Briefing 53: The Importance of Trust in ANY Relationship - A Core Value of Men's Alliance

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Men’s Alliance

As we embrace 2025, let us prioritize trust as a pivotal value in our lives and within the Men's Alliance community. Remember, humans will inevitably let each other down, but we must consciously practice believing the best intentions behind each action. Trust not only strengthens our relationships but also fosters forgiveness and resilience in our interactions. Let’s commit to being supportive tribesmen, offering help, and believing in each other’s capabilities. Let's make 2025 a year full of trust, growth, and connection! Watch on Youtube! - https://youtu.be/HIxAkvLd6y0 Follow Men's Alliance Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribe Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribe Website - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/ Order the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV

Jan 06
12 min
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