Episode 213: PTSD and Relationships - Forgiveness is NOT a One Time Thing

In this powerful episode, we explore the inspiring story of Anne Smith and her husband, Nelson, as they navigate the challenges of love, trauma, and healing. From meeting in Afghanistan to battling the impact of PTSD on their marriage, Anne and Nelson share how vulnerability, professional therapy, and the support of their Christian community helped them rebuild their relationship. Their journey is a testament to the power of forgiveness and the strength it takes to heal together. Whether you’re facing relationship struggles or personal battles, this conversation offers hope, guidance, and encouragement to seek help and embrace the healing process. ✨ Key Takeaways: • The importance of vulnerability in healing and relationships • How EMDR therapy helped Nelson process trauma • The role of community and faith in recovery • Why forgiveness is a daily, intentional choice Anne's Book - Recalibrated: HOW A GREEN BERET AND HIS BRIDE OVERCAME REALITIES OF COMBAT AND A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP THROUGH FAITH, HOPE, & LOVE. https://amzn.to/3WiJIoX Watch on YouTube! - https://youtu.be/L5JV9CPfuG8 Register for the National Rally in May! https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences/national-rally Follow Men's Alliance Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribe Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribe Website - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/ Order the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV

Jan 16
1 hr 20 min
Iron Sharpens Iron

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Only 13% of People Are Truly Self-Aware – Are You One of Them? | Ian Cron on Enneagram and 12 Step

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Men’s Alliance

In this episode of the Men’s Alliance Podcast, we dive deep into the world of self-awareness and personal growth with special guest Ian Cron—a New York Times bestselling author, psychotherapist, Enneagram expert, and Episcopal priest. Discover why only 13% of people are genuinely self-aware and how you can break free from the illusion of self-knowledge.Ian breaks down the 9 Enneagram personality types, how to identify yours, and why understanding your core motivations is key to achieving real transformation. We also discuss how the 12 Steps of Recovery offer a powerful framework for anyone—not just addicts—to heal, grow, and improve relationships.💡 Topics covered: • The truth about self-awareness (and why most people lack it) • The 9 Enneagram Types and their core motivations • How the Enneagram can strengthen relationships and leadership skills • The surprising connection between the 12 Steps and spiritual growth📚 Get Ian Cron’s latest book The Fix and take his Enneagram assessment at https://IanMorganCron.com👉 Subscribe and hit the bell for more conversations that help you become a better husband, father, and leader.⚔️ Join us at the Men’s Alliance National Rally (May 2-4) for an unforgettable weekendGet your tickets here 👉 https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences/national-rallyFollow Men's AllianceInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribeTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribeWebsite - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/Order the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV

Apr 03
1 hr
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Ep 179: In the Light w/ Matt Osborne

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Men’s Alliance

Matt Osborne is back to discuss the over sexualization of our culture and why we must push back against a world that is targeting our children.
We all struggle with something, and we need to bring it to the light in order to get help and loosen its power over our lives. Listen to the previous podcast with Matt: Ep 169: Underground https://open.spotify.com/episode/1BMavhAp2JNP1AIQFh3ShV?si=f93402ac2e9a49c7 Learn More: https://ourrescue.org/ Sound of Freedom -Movie. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7599146/ Report child sexual exploitation. - https://report.cybertip.org/ Child online safety education - https://www.missingkids.org/NetSmartz/home Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Jun 13
58 min
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Mission Briefing 11: Groundhog Day

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Men’s Alliance

Don't focus on winning the girl. Focus on being becoming a better man. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Feb 12
12 min
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Ep 175: How Great Men Grieve

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Men’s Alliance

Johanna Stamps, a licensed grief counselor, talks about how we have to acknowledge grief and mourn in order to continue to move towards God’s vision for our life.  Many items can be lost such as a job, pets, friendships, and marriages.  As men, we need to take time and space to let our brain catch up to the event that has happened. Johanna shares her 7 steps included below and talks about the power of writing a closure letter on the grief you are going through. How to connect with Johanna:johannastamps.com804 944 [email protected] Men’s Alliance | How Great Men Grieve “If you loved it, and lost it, then grieve it” Grief is like an epic hike through a desolate land. 7 Steps of the Journey: 1. TRAILHEAD: AT THE BEGINNING OF THE JOURNEY a. Set the intention to heal, to integrate b. Look for a sign you are grieving: Cognitive, Affective, Physical, Spiritual c. You ONLY work where grief is coming up, that’s the beginning d. Feel the pain (No pain, No gain)... It brings healing 2. LOOK AT THE MAP (Pssst... it’s a magical map) a. The magical map only appears as you walk forward in your grief b. It’s completely unique to you (circumstance, personality, etc.) c. Dispel misconceptions (don’t look for stages) 3. BEGIN WALKING a. Small doses as it comes up b. One thing at a time c. We cannot grieve all at one time. We wouldn’t be able to take it! d. Be creative... example: recognizing important dates (or your body will tell you) 4. GATHER WITH OTHERS - DON’T GRIEVE IN ISOLATION a. Grieving is internal - Mourning is your external or public experience of grief b. ESSENTIAL - speak about the experience of the loss, memories, etc. c. Moves from the head to the heart (READ THIS AGAIN!!!) d. Look for the 1⁄3 who are good with grief (most likely someone who has dealt with their own grief) 5. STOP FOR REST a. Sustenance for your epic journey b. Maybe learn to rest for the first time 6. EXERCISE JOY AND PAIN MUSCLE a. Like any normal ruck or hike there is joy with the pain b. Practice this often when you are grieving 7. GET TO THE LOOKOUT a. Reflect on how far you have come (when you look at the loss with less pain) b. See parts of yourself that are becoming whole again - integrating the loss c. This is OFTEN understanding who you are (e.g. identity) Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

May 02
1 hr 21 min
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Men’s Ministry That ACTUALLY Works! | Pastor Stan Grant on Brotherhood & Faith

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Men’s Alliance

Men’s ministry should be more than just an event—it should be a brotherhood. In this raw conversation, Pastor Stan from Cloverhill Church shares his insights on what really works when it comes to reaching and discipling men. From the impact of Men’s Alliance Tribes to lessons learned over 28 years of ministry, this episode is packed with wisdom, leadership insights, and stories of faith in action.🚀 What’s the key to building strong men in the church? Find out in this episode!🔔 Subscribe for more real talk on men’s faith, leadership, and building a brotherhood that stands the test of time.📌 Timestamps:0:00 – Why Men’s Ministry Matters5:12 – The Power of Brotherhood & Accountability12:45 – Lessons from 28 Years in Ministry22:30 – Why Some Churches Struggle to Reach Men35:10 – The Future of Men’s Discipleship#MensMinistry #Brotherhood #MensAlliance #Faith #ChurchLeadership #MensDiscipleshipSponsor:Chris 'Coop' Norwood w/ Towne Bank MortgagePhone: 804-439-3206⁠⁠https://townebankmortgage.com/officers/chris-norwood/⁠ ⁠Register for the National Rally in May!https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences/national-rallyBuy our Protein (and our coffee!) - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/shop/ma-downrange-mermite-field-recovery-proteinFollow Men's AllianceInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribeTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribeWebsite - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/Order the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV

Mar 13
56 min
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